Most Dangerous Number for Incubating Your Dreams

Building your dreams on a single income source is hazardous. Let me explain:

Businesses live and die by numbers.

And the number that is death to any business (and is death to even non-business owners) is the number 1.

What do I mean?

Well, nothing can hurt you more than to place all your trust in one of anything …. Like to put all your eggs in one basket.

For example, to have only one job or source / stream of income – especially now that the recession just would not let go of its claws .

Or one customer that makes up most of the sales.

And so on, and so forth.

Take one job, for instance.  If you only have a job to support you and your family and no other way of bringing home the bacon, and that job is yanked out from under you, you’re cremated toast.

There is little that can cause more damage to your future dreams for your family, and even sink them, is having a single source of revenues.

Only One is DANGEROUS.

And this is why a home business has become so important.

Especially for today’s uncertain times.

The economy goes up and down like a roller coaster.

If you think you have a truly “safe” job, think again rather nicely about it.

Unfortunately, people are still programmed to think they have sufficient security if they have a “good job” – nothing can be more dangerously further from the truth.

If you rely on a job and lose it, your income is gone.

Your family is vulnerable.

And you will be forced to do what comes your way.

Usually something you hate to do.

But …

If you have a job AND are working a business on the side, you aren’t vulnerable.  You can use the business income to help weather the storm (or just take it full time and not even worry about a job).

The conclusion?

Just one thing of something important is the most dangerous number in life.

And this is especially true when generating an income for your family and their dreams.

If you rely on one of anything, you’re in trouble.

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Affirmations …. I’m scared

The Kalahari (North-western part of South-Africa) is a hard and desolate place; its local people often living a solitary lifestyle. They are herdsmen seeking pasture for their goats in the partial dessert. Some might even live a sort of nomadic lifestyle from time to time…. Often their more precious possession is their little herd.

Pastor Barrie Burger is ministering to these people tracking on horseback some times for several days on end, overnighting at a family and ministering to them.

On a late afternoon a little boy came running to him from a simple dwelling, curious about this interesting man with his long grey hair hanging on his shoulders. And the beautiful horse with the wooden cross hanging from his neck.

Barrie picked Lorrie up, put him on the horse and walked with him. But Lorrie said: “I’m scared”.

When it grew dark the little boy dragged a chair close to his new friend and climbed on it and said: “I’m scared”. Later, again Lorrie said: “I’m scared”; but went to the little shack, coming back with a toddler book of only 6 pages; it was clear the little book was special to him.

Lorrie showed to his friend a picture of a bright star, a crib and hay, and in the crib was a baby…. But the little fingers was hastily searching for an other picture: Pointing his little toddler finger  at the blood, the cross, and the mocking face of a soldier.

At last he is getting more calm when showing the last page – it’s a storm on the open sea; huge waves are braking over the boat that looks as if it can sink any moment. Lorrie shows his friend the fear on the faces of the people on the boat. Then he shifts his toddler finger to an other Man sleeping at the back of the boat. The little finger lingers at this peaceful Man amongst the other petrified faces. Then the little face looks up to the cross on the chest of his new special friend; now there is peace in the little toddler eyes.

For day’s after this Barrie thought about Lorrie, he’s new little friend. About his solitary humble existence with no toy’s or television. About the simplicity of his existence, the fear in his voice and the Man peaceful a sleep in the almost sinking boat which he showed his new friend with his little toddler fingers.

Later this tale was told to many scared people, people like you and me who is wondering about tomorrow, the recession which sometimes appears as if it will never come to an end. Maybe you have been retrenched and have a family to look after; you or a loved one might be struggling with a terminal disease, maybe you are unsure of your marriage, the interview at a possible new job…. We can also be afraid like Lorrie.

Some times pastor Barrie is wondering who will take over his missionary work one day…. it will be a person that knows and understands what it is to feel like Lorrie, what it is like to be afraid, who will know how to minister to the humble often scared people of the Kalahari dessert. Someone who knows and has made peace with the Man peaceful a sleep in the back of their scared-boat.

We do not have a ‘Jesus-book’ like Lorrie with a picture of a boat in a violent storm and a Man peaceful at sleep in the back.

However, continual meditation of God’s Word can be an Anchor for our scared-rocking boat. Though it is not the same  as traditional affirmations it sure are more of an anchor in our sometimes violent storms of life.

Traditional affirmations like “I’m rich” when you are actually poor do not always help, they are often focused on not much bearing “universe” powers. Mind-maps and dream boards and affirmations based on these can however be a good idea to keep you on coarse when used as a guide, kind of building plan and roadmap – but it is not a miracle power or guard. Rather use them to map your way to a wealthy lifestyle.

I am busy reading “The Purpose Driven Life” by Pastor Rick Warren where he advise on Continual Meditation of God’s Word. He points on 1 Thess. 5:17 “Pray without ceasing.”

Before the falling of man due to sin Adam and Eve were in constant communication with their Creator in the garden of Eden. Gen. 3:8  “And they heard the voice of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: ….” He also is omnipotent:  Eph. 4:6 “One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.”

Pastor Warren mention some of Brother Lawrence’s (Wikipedia; Practice Gods Presence) tips like to pray short ‘breath prayers’ throughout the day rather than long complex prayers which often can lead to wandering of our prayer-thoughts.

I’m quoting a few examples:

• You are with me
• I receive Your grace
• I am depending on You
• I want to know You
• Help me too trust You
• For me to live is Christ
• You will never leave nor forsake me
• You are my heavenly Father
• You lead me to green pastures where there is peace and rest
• God is with me and for me right now

We should pray these as often as possible, Pastor Warren advises, so it gets rooted as deep as possible in our hearts. But – we must always be sure that our motive is to honor God and not to control Him. We must pray these as musicians practice scales daily to bring forth beautiful fluent music.

To end off: Pastor Warren points out that we should not always expect an special experience with Him through all off this. Our goal is a continual awareness of the reality that God is always present.

A final thought from me :   It is Gods’ will that we should Prosper :-

Ps 1:3   And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

3 Joh 1:2   Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

King James Bible Online

Boost your Confidence and Self-Assurance

Here are some tips to help you to get on your way

Seek to live and work in a Supportive Environment

Life some times can get hard and that is why we must have friends there to support us and make us feel better when we are having  not that a great time.

Best is to live/work in a place where the people understand our goals and truly supports us. Where we can thrive and succeed.  No matter how strong the wind of opposition blows, that we can stand strong like a tree, keeping our roots embedded in the ground (our support folks) and nothing can topple us over. Supportive relationships ride the roller coaster of life with us. They ride the highs, lows and curves together.

Maturity begins to grow when you can sense your concern for others outweighing your concern for yourself. Remember that support is a two way street – we should realise that no matter how bad our life might seem at the time being, someone we know is having a harder time so….  I will be the one you can call on.

Being supportive validates accomplishments, but it also validates your relationship by showing that you get what’s important to each other.

Always be there for your family because when times gets difficult for you it is they that will be the first to be there for you. Our families are like a sanctuary for us. We turn to them for support and strength. We take comfort in knowing no matter which path we choose…. my family stands behind me.

Cherish and love those who have supported you and have given you strength, who’ve been there for you in your time of need and have held you up. Let them know who they are in your life. With the constant love, support and inspiration of people who care about us, we can get through anything! Even through the toughest of times.

A Last thought: If looking backwards is painful, and looking forward is scary, just remember that God will always be there to walk beside you.

Build a “Board of Advisors”  

We must surround ourselves with supportive people in whom we can confide, and who will offer honest, respectful feedback. Isolation does not breed confidence. When our support network isn’t so supportive must change it.

We seek to make sense of the patterns in our lives, and we often need others to understand, appreciate or even challenge the meaning we make. Sometimes, all we need in life is that one special person who deeply inspires us and gives us the courage to be who we were meant to be.

Asking for help really isn’t a sign of weakness, but of courage in realizing we simply cannot get through it alone.

Avoid Negative People and Places as if it’s the plague 

Don’t dwell on those who have let you down, they don’t matter. Those that disappear during the lows are not ones we can depend on. Sometimes we just have to be done wit people who don’t support us and our life,  if we have tried and nothing works then its time to let go and move on. Don’t let them drag you down.

Don’t be afraid to be yourself. If people don’t accept you, they don’t belong in your life.

It’s been said that negative energy is twice as powerful than positive energy.  Your first step should be to recognise the people and situations that tend towards infectious negativity. Take actions to avoid them whenever possible. Be careful – negative energy is nothing to take lightly when it comes to its impact on your sense of self and your environment.

Be the one that Step Forward

Yep, this is not easy peasy, but you’ve got to put yourself out there.  It takes guts. Its a choice of will…. and only your own will. Being a couch sloth in front of Olympics TV won’t earn you any medals.

To be able to become the person you want to be you must  start acting like the person you want to become! Some might call it being rude and disrespectful, but it actually is standing up for what you believe in.

When things aren’t going right in your life, it’s best to take a step back and ask yourself, what role did YOU play in how it turned out!!! It not at all means  we are defeated, it only means we are going to take the same step forward again, but this time, WISER !!

Challenges are not there to stop us – they are there to help us grow.  That what we thought we could handle, what we thought we could take, what we thought would destroy us leaves us stronger and wiser.

Although we may not be able to control certain situations in our life, we can control how we CHOOSE to deal with them! Then we must have the strength and courage to allow us to be who we truly are, and not become that which others believe we should be.

Many a situation in life might knock us down, but what counts is how and especially that we do get back up and keep going. When we find our self faced with decision to, “go big or go home,” just remember… Fear is temporary; Regret is forever!

Being different is a sign of courage.

Do not Assume Others are Smarter Than You

Loving yourself is the fastest way to happiness. However,

it is easy to get intimidated by those around us and think, ah, he or she is smarter than me. We must keep in mind that our ideas are just as good as anyone’s, and that our presence in any given situation is valuable. We must navigate life with this assumption, and it makes a huge difference.

We must always treat our self with Love and Respect and Honesty; Loving ourselves enough to respect the fact we cant be perfect and giving ourselves praise that is honest.

Remember -others can only judge you when they are as perfect as they expect you to be!

Take the time, and you will find that the most interesting person you could ever know is yourself.

Do not let anyone tell you that you are not good enough, you were created as you and no one can take that away from you, because you are you and you are unique .

Don’t ever let the words of someone else bring you down.

It’s not the word of other people that should matter it should be the words from you that mean the most!

If people have a problem with you… always remember…it is THEIR problem

Being “perfect” is impossible, no one is perfect – instead, be perfectly YOU! it is possible to be your own version of perfect!

You should not Fake It Until You Make It 

A “fake it until you make it” attitude can be useful at times,  but in the long run it is not beneficial.  Often it is a potential symptom of low self-confidence being masked.

Cultivate authentic confidence rather than the counterfeit sort. Practice makes perfect, and our brains learn from practicing new behaviors.

The first reaction is always the truest reaction. Don’t be fake. Be true to yourself and people will love you for you who you are, not what they want you to be.

Life`s too short to pretend.

Fake people beg for trust; real people earn trust.

When you are fake or a poser you are so untrue to yourself…and if you can’t be true to yourself how can you be true to others?

Do not Reject Rejection

It is important that you notice and accept that rejection is not a reflection of your capabilities nor you as a person.

Rejection is a part of life, even though it is not always a pleasant one. Actually it is beter to get more comfortable with it, even though it sounds hard. Often rejection is part of the terrain that we move in and has nothing whatsoever to do with you or me. Best is to just believe in your self.

Rejection is not someone wanting you out of their life. Rejection is someone God wanted out of your future.

Life’s rejections are  just God’s protection.

Can also be God saying – Wrong direction, kiddo.

Take an Improve Class

We tend to be held back from our goals by the familiarity of our comfort zones…but just how comfortable are we?

Doing something outside your comfort zone can be therapeutic and gives you a jolt of self-confidence :”Hey, I did it and I survived!” Join an improve class or a cappella group–or take swing dance lessons. Just make sure it’s something outside your ordinary realm.

If you truly desire a change in your life, you have to be willing to let go of what you know and sometimes go outside of your comfort zone!

Helping someone else through their troubles can often make your own go away if even for a few moments

Pay It Forward

Helping others is a great confidence-booster, since it brings with it a sense of efficacy. Give one of the three W’s back to the world: wisdom, wealth or work. Give of your knowledge, your money or your hands-on effort. Each makes a difference in improving the world.

Create a Top 10 List of Values

Outline what’s important to you–and rank them. Doing so can lead you to a greater understanding of what really matters to you, whether it’s family, work, starting on a novel or joining a neighborhood exercise group.  The end result: a greater sense of self and of motivation.

Character is something no one can take from you when you are true to your values and ethics

Value not the things you have in life but rather WHO you have in LIFE!

Living through life’s hardships builds character.

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Embrace An Optimistic Future

Thinking about the possibilities of your future job or career can give you a greater sense of power and direction. Moreover, acknowledging and reflecting upon your past, present and future are all important, since each affects our sense of self and our confidence.

We don’t necessarily have the best of everything. But we sure can try our best making the best of everything that comes in our way.

Life is so full of open doors – why should we only focus on the one that has closed?

When God closes a door He always opens a window.

Anything is possible, Set your sights high, treat others well, be happy with yourself, and life will be better than you’ve ever imagined! Just LIVE it!

Life is TOO Short to be anything BUT Happy So Love Deeply, Forgive Quickly, Take Chances & Never Have REGRETS. FORGET the Past but Remember wat it TAUGHT  

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The Vital Power of Now and our Dreams for a Wealthy Lifestyle

Be focused on the present

When starting up a business its so important to be present minded. – To be aware of what is going on with and around the business. Its so important to realise that there is no other time than now; no better day than today.

Tomorrow

Tomorrow, well, it just haven’t arrived yet. Tomorrow is just like another today. Tomorrow actually already has enough of its own tasks that needs solving.

All to easy the task allocated for tomorrow slips behind and becomes a problem. The day after tomorrow you discover that out of the blue you’re confronted with one and a half problems; the day after, it’s two problems and confusion awakes…. And all of a sudden you’re stuck with three problems instead of the first day’s only one….

Yesterday

Yesterday is gone, there is absolutely nothing we can do about yesterdays’ opportunities….  They are gone if we haven’t completed them…. its Lost. Sobbing over them will only cloud our eyes causing more drama for today and more likely the future.

But it’s so important to learn from yesterday’s mistakes  so that we can have a stronger more stable healthy growth for the future.

Stop dwelling in the past. Stop being distracted by things that was suppose to happen but haven’t; or the to many things “on the fork” for tomorrow

To worry rarely get you any where other than unproductiveness and stealing your confidence and productiveness.

Action may not always bring happiness, but there is no happiness without action.

Benjamin Disraeli

To keep up

Goals must be feasible. They also need perseverance and motivation. They need to be cut up in small reachable pieces.

Do you know you can  eat a elephant, mmm?, jip! You just take it piece by piece!

Still impossible? Well, you must take it to the up-town butchery and ask them to make all kinds of different delicious  pieces of meats, sausages, and even boerewors & biltong!

Your dreams to preserve the hugely bulky  delicatessen (your budding business) must be turned into a feasible plan otherwise it will all soon be lost…. Decaying meet is no pleasure – especially if it is of such a bulk size! …. and of personal nature, may I ad?

And you should enjoy your tasty delicatessens at least 5 times a week. Otherwise you’ll discover you don’t make a dent in it…. Unless you are mr. Dent yourself

You also should have healthy vegies and salads each day with (like taking care of family needs and having good exercise…. and healthy sleep).

Also, you must enjoy your delicatessens with your family and close experienced best friends (struggling alone on the challenges of your budding business just wont do any good)!

Remember that your “elephant” dishes is actually a grate delicacy and shouldn’t be thrown on the streets!

Your dreams and plans must be alive

Life must have dreams and Direction, otherwise it will get stagnant. But if there is no energy or work done and we do not move in that direction the dreams and plans will get Stagnant.

Its like the little spring in the forest: It wells up in a pristine pond and becomes a Healthy source for plant and animals of the forest. But if there is no brook for the fountain-water to run of into the forest for other plants and animals the water will get stagnant and even sludgy. Every droplet of fresh water from the spring must follow its timely coarse to feed the roots down stream or the fragile sprouting little plants will wither and die.

Today is the best day, the golden…. Platinum day to do the allocated tasks

Treasure your dreams, your worth

Do you still have your childhood-Dreams? Are you still dreaming like you did when you was a child? So many of us has been deprived  from our dreams by our modern lifestyle – from really being alive. True happiness comes from within yourself… not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.

We must be true  to our  dreams, and keep them alive. – Never let anyone change your mind about what you feel you can achieve.  – We must always believe in ourselves!

So often our dreams are opportunities just siting on the shelf  waiting to become real. Waiting on us to pick it up, dust it of, and start using it.

Often we become tired and even bored from sitting around and waiting for things to get ‘better’. Being stuck in the rat-race, we created ourselves,…. Is when it actually was already time to improve our lifestyles.

We so often complain that life is to short. Though its not that life is so short, it’s because we’re waiting so long to start actually living. We must start doing the things we actually want to do. Start doing our dreams.

Our dreams are opportunities waiting to become real.  They are  visions of the future – we must start living our dreams and we will accomplish so much more!

Can you stil Live the Lifestyle you were dreaming about when you were a child?

We must keep on dreaming and live our dreams to really feel that we are alive.

The Dreams in our hearts are only previews of our future. We must hold fast to them and we should never let go of them till we’ve made them part of our lives.

However, our Hopes and Dreams are so often like teardrops in the rain, the hard realities of our current lives, that they simply disappears -so we need to take special care of them.

If you love something don’t be afraid of what others think – do what your heart tells you ;  if you go with what the dream stealers think you might regret it for the rest of your life, a life that could have so much more purpose. In our lives, but especially in our minds, we must get rid of as much as possible that is not in line with our dreams for tomorrow.

The complications of life only make us stronger, when our hopes and dreams come true. Sometimes the road is rough but it’s the bumps along the way that we learn the most from and gain the most strength. Keep on believing that, in the end everything will be OK, and if its not OK then…. its just not the end.

Sometimes, Dreams are the only thing keeping us holding onto that one last bit of hope and happiness, making us think there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. When there is no light at the end of the tunnel we must just remember that not all tunnels are straight and that the  light is around the corner which we have just  yet to turn.

Never say you have failed until you have reached your last attempt, and never say it’s your last attempt until you have succeeded…

Most people are only one idea, one dream, or one person, one last turn in the tunnel away from their miracle – their accomplishing of their dream. Do not give up hope when there is no light insight in front of the tunnel – not all tunnels can be straight and you are just before that last turn.

Remember – Nothing is impossible, some things are sometimes just harder than others.

On the end its those special hopes and dreams that’s keeping us going.

Our hearts can break, our souls can ache, our confidence can shake, our smiles can be fake, but we must always remember that our lives are never a mistake.

Where God is, there is hope, where there is hope, there is faith, where there is faith, anything can be done as long as you put  all of your heart into it.

“Ability is what you’re capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – Lou Holtz

 

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